I am having problems regarding handling my emotions. most of my friends told me that i am too emotional and sensitive over small things, because im a serious type of person, i dont cant differentiate wether they are telling me is a joke or a serious matter, and then when i dont like what i heard, i suddenly outbursted with emotions, getting angry and start making arguments or quarrels. and the worst, i will ignore them for a long time.
Some of the people told me that it is inappropriate to act like this for a 22 year old guy. and some of my friends told me that it is an attitude of a gay. I'm straight and not a homo, they just dont understand that i have a problem in handling my emotions properly or i am too expressive. For example, if they are playing jokes on me and it's hitting me that hard, if i will not say it then i have the tendency to experience some pains on my chest, get a head ache and feel stressed or depressed or even worst... difficulty in breathing... Sometimes they also tell jokes that are offensive or foul, degrading my personality. And even embarassing me in public, will i have to stay quiet so that they will not say or see me as too emotional and sensitive even if it is hard? what must i do to make them understand? what should i do so that i can handle myself and my emotions properly?
also this one, i have only a few closest friends. whenever i treat them nicely especially the when of the same gender, they look at it in a bad way. I don't get along with my family as well, that's why i treat my close friends like my real family / siblings. i give the love, care, and importance to them instead that are supposed for my family. and then some start doubting my gender and look at it in a bad way.
2 comments:
~phantomkun here.
tol nung unang pagbasa ko sa blog mo, i thought you just needed to "hang" with different types of people. and also take note that there are different kinds of people. lahat sila may different effect sayo. ang naisip ko lang either you blend with them na pag inasar ka, you react like parang wala lang. or, rather be different and tell them "ui teka sobra na ata yang joke mo."
try not to worry too much. ^^ sana helpful to. uhm...bout dun sa physical pains...magpatingin ka sa psychiatrist. kasi ibang problem na yan eh. maybe sa eating.
btw, pasok ka bukas ha? paturo ng VB ^^
so far gusto ko ung yellow moon sa playlist mo. hehehehe xD
Nope, this blog is intended to gather help and advice from peers and others. I like to share my experience regarding handling my emotions and anger because i have problems in handling them. This blog also intends to help those who has the same case as me.
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